That's just it, I don't want any help to get out of where I am. I'm going to do it on my own.

I despise handouts and I will never accept one except with the closest of friends and family and then only grudgingly. I will not be beholden to any socialistic government because I despise dependency when it is not needed.

My job allows me to see the government dependents in this society, many are more than capable of working, they just chose not too because the government will give them more for just sitting on their asses.