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athelind ([personal profile] athelind) wrote2009-10-29 10:34 pm

Your Obedient Serpent doesn't know how to unwind anymore.

Your Obedient Serpent has no idea what he's gonna do to relax in the near future, because all the things he's frittered away his spare-and-not-so-spare time on over the years actively piss him off right now.

This is, in part, because he's frittered away so much of his life on them, and in part because, well, Busman's Holiday. One of his sources of stress is his low-paying retail job, selling all those time-consuming distractions.


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[identity profile] jonaswins.livejournal.com 2009-10-30 05:42 am (UTC)(link)
Ever thought about trying meditation?

[identity profile] tombfyre.livejournal.com 2009-10-30 06:48 am (UTC)(link)
I'd suggest writing or artwork, but that too is rather work-like, isn't it? Just kicking back with some computer based games here and there couldn't hurt. I find the trick is to have several things you like to do, so you don't get bored just doing one or two things time and time again. Draw, write, create, go for walks, read a book, enjoy a bath, watch TV, play a game, have friends over for board-games and supper, that kinda thing. :3

There's always farking around on the internet too, with such mediums as chatting and SL.

[identity profile] foofers.livejournal.com 2009-10-30 08:20 am (UTC)(link)
Cycling. Time spent piloting a bike is never frittered.

[identity profile] toob.livejournal.com 2009-10-30 03:19 pm (UTC)(link)
How about goin' out for drinks with your buds? :)

[identity profile] paka.livejournal.com 2009-10-30 07:06 pm (UTC)(link)
I know the feeling. I love love love games, but part of me worries that this is all just stimming and not really pushing my life forwards. Maybe there's a way to make peace with geeky interests, but I haven't quite figured it out yet.

[identity profile] thoughtsdriftby.livejournal.com 2009-10-30 09:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Perhaps because most activities and entertainments are best enjoyed while sharing them with someone. Only a few distractions fair well solo for a social being.

Video games, videos, and creative crafts tend to do well, with only the creative bits accomplishing anything. So the question would be what can you do and within reason, what do you want to begin doing (that you would have patience for)? The last comment is that many things might easily require say 500 hours to become competent at, investing only 60 hours would then be a waste.

[identity profile] braxus.livejournal.com 2009-10-31 04:53 am (UTC)(link)
Probably a little bias here but perhaps a walk/hike at local preserves and parks. :) Maybe attend one of the docent led activities around the Bay Area as some of those I'm guessing would be good networking opportunities.

[identity profile] mocha-mephooki.livejournal.com 2009-10-31 06:21 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not sure what to comment other than... yeah... this was supposed to be a hobby, but somewhere along the line it turned into work, and now part of me hates it just as much as I hate any job. When the sense of choice to do something gets twisted into a sense of obligation... it just... plain loses something, and I'm not entirely sure how to get that back again in its pure form.

I miss it... but its never the same anymore...